You're invited to a Fwedding
Let's dance — Spaansche Hof, Den Haag — invitation
Saturday, 6 June 2026
Spaansche Hof · Den Haag · 17:30 — 00:30
What's a Fwedding?

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It's happening — see you on the dancefloor.
Fwedding
/ˈfwɛdɪŋ/
noun

A fake wedding. No white dress, no ring, no formal toasts (though a few speeches may sneak in). Just good food, dancing, cocktails, and the people who matter most to us in one place.

A small note

Partner times three
one good excuse

We're throwing a partner, partner, partner party — because we both made partner, we are each other's partner, and (only just discovered) there's a tiny partner on the way.

Apéro with bubbles. A proper dinner. Cocktails and dancing once the lights go down. All of it tucked inside the Spaansche Hof, in the heart of Den Haag.

We'd love nothing more than to have you there.

— Laura & David
The reason, make that, reasons

Partner. Partner. Partner.

i

Married to the job

We've both been married to our work for years. Turns out if you stay loyal long enough, they call you partner. So here we are, on both sides.

ii

Love of our life/lijf

Each other. We've been very much in for years. The Fwedding is just making it official-ish. (Yes, the slash is a Dutch joke. It's worth it.)

iii

The tiny one

And then, a little surprise as a new partner arriving early October. Plus one.

The evening

Bubbles, dinner, cocktails

We'd like to keep you fed, hydrated, and on your feet until just past midnight.

First

Apéro

Bubbles to start

Then

Dinner

Guess what cuisine?

After

Cocktails & dancing

Until 00:30. Dance with a cocktail.

Saturday's signature cocktail

The Indonesian Sour

Pandan liqueur · citrus · foam

Tropical, herbal, dangerously easy to drink twice.

The practical bits

All you need to know

When

Saturday
6 June 2026

Block the evening.
Time

17:30 — 00:30

Arrive on time for the apéro.
Where

Spaansche Hof

Den Haag

A historic courtyard, all to ourselves.
Dresscode

Cocktail

(naturally)

It's a Fwedding: white & bright are very much allowed.
Finding the place

Getting there & parking

Het Spaansche Hof

A 17th-century city palace and Rijksmonument tucked into the heart of Den Haag. Ornate salons, a quiet inner courtyard garden, and — for one night — entirely ours.

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By car

The Spaansche Hof is tucked away in the heart of Den Haag — beautiful, but parking right at the door isn't an option. Happily, there are plenty of spots nearby.

We recommend Q-Park Torengarage, just a short walk away. Guests of our Fwedding can use a reduced parking tariff — let us know in advance if you'd like to make use of it.

By bike

Cycling over? Even better. You're more than welcome to park your bike directly in the venue's inner courtyard.

Dietary requirements

Anything we should know?

You've already let us know you're coming. Thank you! Please let us know if you have any dietary requirements or preferences, like a strong preference for a certain type of vegetable (🍆). Drop a quick message to Laura or David to let us know.

A note on gifts

Your presence is the present

If you'd still like to give something, a contribution to our babymoon would be lovely

tap the envelope
Much love,
Laura & David